Ten questions for a groom

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You're of marriageable age and have begun meeting eligible men. And there are so many things to consider before making a life-long commitment to someone! Here are ten questions you must ask any potential suitor while you're deciding whether you want to marry him or not.

1. Why do you want to get married?

If he so much as hints at something as ridiculous as like 'because everybody gets married' or as crass as 'for the free sex,' show him the door!

2. How do you spend your weekends?

How he answers this might give you an insight into his lifestyle and tastes. Movies, music, clubbing, eating out… see how many of these are your interests too. If you are a total foodie and he doesn't like anything except plain homemade food, you might want to think again because of clashes of interests.

3. What time do you wake up in the morning?

It will also give you an indication of what time he sleeps at night and if he's a night person.

4. What makes you tick?

Now this is an interesting question that will give you a sneak peak into his inner self. You'll know if he's the adventurous type if an impossible situation or challenges keep him going.

5. Do you watch porn?

If he says no, nine of out 10 chances are he's lying and perhaps projecting an image that's not really him. If he says yes and elaborates, he's opening up with you and encouraging you to open up too. But only ask the question if it doesn't make you feel uncomfortable.

6. What do you think will make our marriage work?

See if his answer is in tune with your own ideas of a successful marriage.

7. Would you like to tell me about your past relationships?

If he comes clean, he's honest and quite open with you. If he says he's had some but he'd rather talk about it another time, give him the benefit of doubt. If he says he's had none, then you might want to tread more carefully.

8. How would you handle a potential financial crisis?

Through the answer to this question, you might get an idea about his take on problem solving and how dependent he might be on others vis-à-vis his own abilities.

9. What do you value most in a relationship?

See if you two are on the same page with regard to this one. It's among the crucial questions.

10. If you had to say yes to me, what are your reasons?

You'll know exactly what he likes about you and also give you a chance to figure out if the reasons are right!

Mark him on these answers and see if you've finally found The One… If not, don't worry, you will get to interrogate many more.

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